Throughout the years... I have been told that my standards for my future husband are rather high... but I have to say over the past few months...that bar has been raised.
Thanks to many experiences with men that God has put into my path, I have learned numerous lessons that will be beneficial in the future...
Some of the lessons I have learned recently...
+When a man is interested... He will pursue... it is up to me to respond but I don't have to initiate and force the relationship. It is also nice to be pursued!
+Friendship is the key to a long lasting relationship and marriage. I want someone to partner with on grand adventures... to go on road trips with... and to share life with.
+There are men that take marriage seriously... and enter it humbly on their knees before God.
+Even with all my quirks...I can be loved for me. I don't have to be somethimg I am not or act a certain way to be loved.
+Communication is the key to any relationship. Men can't read a woman's mind so it is ok to share what our needs are. When done respectfully and in their time, men are more than happy to meet those needs.
+Men are good providers.
+A real man is not intimidated by a woman seeking to follow the LORD. He is intrigued and will join her for the adventure!
Now I am sure you may be wondering if these characteristics are from one certain man in my life.. and my answer is no. They are a compilation of several that I have had the privilege of getting to know recently. With each of these men... the bar has been raised!
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