2. Cooler weather
3. No work or school
These precious little hands are what holds the future of Uganda and my heart! They are so absolutely precious! |
A little hesitant over the fried grasshoppers... but they were quite delicious! |
Paulina and her baby doll picked out by Isla! She was amazed that there are dolls that look like her! All the dolls here are white so this is a priceless treasure for this little one! |
One of my sunflowers that survived the jackfruit tree massacre! |
Sheba trying to make friends with the little black kitty... |
black kitty wants my attention but not Sheba's! |
In my spare time I have been reading a book entitled "Dirty Faith" by Audio Adrenaline that my aunt left. It is all about being Jesus' hands and feet... not just living in our safe clean bubble.
One of the paragraphs that moved my heart this morning said...
"Being Jesus' hands on earth means we need to learn how to have some of Jesus' heart on earth. Are you moved with compassion for people in pain? Does your heart hurt for the lonely and sick and abused? If nothing ever moves us to feel with the people around us, we're not very likely to get involved in their lives."
Sometimes in the midst of full time ministry, we get tired... we get weighed down by the on going need around us... This got me thinking... if Jesus every got weary and needed a break... and I think that the answer is yes. Did Jesus ever get so weighed down by the need that he saw all around him? I think he may have because we read in scripture how he acted with kindness and compassion and stopped what he was doing in order to help those in need.
So with that said... why do I feel guilty when I get weary and need to rest? Why does my heart ache to see all of the need around me?... my final conclusion is that is how God made us so that we image him. If I am to follow in his sandles then I need to get down and dirty. I need to follow exactly where He leads and he will provide strength and rest when needed!
My challenge to you this morning is to step outside of your "Christian bubble" and serve those around you that are in need... it can be something as simple as a smile... a hug... a word of encouragement... a peanut butter sandwich... the possibilities are endless... just be his hands and feet to a world in need of HIM!
"FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH"
This is a promise out of God's word but something that I got to witness last night. With John and Kimberly leaving to go back stateside we spent the night at Sheron hotel in Kampala. After a long taxing day, I went to bed a little after 9 only to wake up an hour later to a blood curdling scream and lots of yelling. From my 2nd story window, I watched a mob scene beat and stone a guy to death.
This morning we heard several stories from the workers at the hotel but the real story came from the security guards at the gate... there has been a group of 6 guys in the area stealing phones, purses, laptops, etc.... the police basically said if they got caught by the local people that they were to kill the one caught. So a young lady had something taken from her... she screamed... then all the surrounding people chased the guy down.
After watching all this go down I decided to go back to sleep only to have John text me from down the hall making sure I was ok and to see if Kimberly could come to my room to watch the action. An hour later... almost midnight... the police finally showed up to take away the body and send everyone home.
Moral of the story... crime does not pay good wages!
This has been a long time in coming.... the list of FAVORITES
Favorite game for boys.... football (or american soccer)
Favorite game/activities for girls... netball, singing, dancing,
Favorite food for breakfast or snack... posho, kabagalagala (pancake)
Favorite food for supper... maize, rice, matoke, cassava, beans
Favorite food for holidays like Easter or Christmas... uncoco aka chicken
Favorite treat... biscuits (cookies) and juice
Favorite fruit... jackfruit, sweet banana, and mango
Favorite pets... animals in our village are for working ... we don't keep animals for pets
Some of our chores include... sweeping our compounds, taking care of our baby brothers and sisters, herding the cattle, feeding the chickens and pigs, helping collect and clean food for supper, fetching water from the bore hole,
Favorite subject in school... religious education, numeracy, language development
We like to spend time outside of school and chores with our friends.
This has been a long time in coming.... the list of FAVORITES
Favorite game for boys.... football (or american soccer)
Favorite game/activities for girls... netball, singing, dancing,
Favorite food for breakfast or snack... posho, kabagalagala (pancake)
Favorite food for supper... maize, rice, matoke, cassava, beans
Favorite food for holidays like Easter or Christmas... uncoco aka chicken
Favorite treat... biscuits (cookies) and juice
Favorite fruit... jackfruit, sweet banana, and mango
Favorite pets... animals in our village are for working ... we don't keep animals for pets
Some of our chores include... sweeping our compounds, taking care of our baby brothers and sisters, herding the cattle, feeding the chickens and pigs, helping collect and clean food for supper, fetching water from the bore hole,
Favorite subject in school... religious education, numeracy, language development
We like to spend time outside of school and chores with our friends.
After having a rough couple of days with a heavy heart over the passing of Romeo (my cat on MKK), my aunt and uncle leaving, my little brown eyed cuties with chicken pox, and having some tummy issues... I have spent many hours in prayer desiring to question what God is doing but I just can't. Everytime I start to even try to get upset with the God of the universe... tears well up in my eyes and my heart only gets heavier. Who am I to wonder what He is doing... who am I to choose just the rose without the thorns... who am I to desire a perfect, pain free life when that is not how my Savior lived... so I am choosing to trust Him and be thankful.
Instead of writing the 30 days of thankfulness on facebook and getting discouraged because I missed a day, I am choosing to list what I am thankful for here. So with thanksgivng day just a few days away.... I am going to count the things the Lord has blessed me with! Living internationally has definitely made me realize the little things that I take for granted on a daily basis. So with all of this... my heart is ultimately thankful to God because every good and perfect gift is from Him!
1. for biological family... for raising me in the ways of the Lord and for blessing me with more than I deserve and for loving me despite my imperfections
2. for spiritual family... my brothers and sisters in Christ around the world that pray... encourage ... and love me!
3. for God and his lovingkindness that gently brings me to repentance
4. for provisions of everything that is needed
5. For ice to make drinks COLD
6. For padded seats with backs at church
7. For hot running showers
8. For air conditioned shops where it is not 90+ degrees within the store while trying to grocery shop
9. For fast convenient food that doesn't take 2 hours to make or recieve
10. For fast internet service
11. For well maintained roads
12. For drivers that follow the rules of the road
13. For prompt mail delivery
14. For the US postal service... you don't know how good we have it in the US until you live in another country
15. For friends that send care packages
16. For iced coffee and just coffee in general
17. For electricity
18. For computers that work
19. For a sense of humor when you say or do something completely wrong in the culture you are living in.... for example... I was walking around campus on Monday whistling and teaching a few of the older children how when one of the Ugandan staff whispered ... that is not good in our culture... that is what is used to call Snakes!
20. For little brown eyed cuties that are always happy to see me
21. For partners in the ministry that come along side to help
22. For 60 pairs of christmas shoes and 120 pairs of socks hand delivered by Godlive the manager of Bata shoes...who knew buying shoes could open the door to meeting a sister in Christ as well as her fiance who is going to use Nabisooto as a starting place for their sanitation and hygiene training for the entire community
23. For a flushing toilet
24. For pets that bring so much joy and laughter into our lives
25. For rainy season as everything is so green
26. For friends that choose to lose sleep so that we can talk on the phone
27. For airplanes that bring family and friends to visit
28. For entertainmet ... like movies and tv and game night
29. For the ocean and all of God's creation
30. For worship songs in all languages that lift up His name
31. For the amazing opportunity to serve... and be His hands and feet... it is tough and lonely at times but the smiles on my little brown eyed cuties makes it all worth it!
Oh... and for clean feet!
As I close out for the night.. my heart is at peace and I am ready for a good night of rest. Counting blessings definitely puts everything into perspective! May I challenge you to do the same this thanksgivng week.
After living in Hawaii for 12 years, I have come to terms with the fact that Christmas can be warm... I have come to terms with being far away from biological family... and I have come to terms with not always having the traditional foods I grew up with for thanksgiving and christmas.... With all that being said....living in Uganda puts an entirely new spin on things. All of the above still apply here however there are very few Christmas decorations and the only ones in the village are in my apartment... there are no christmas lights... or baked treats... or things like egg nog or candy canes!
This morning I woke up to one of our workers playing Christmas music... and it kind of caught me off guard.. It got me thinking that thanksgiving is less than 2 weeks away and Christmas not far behind. It really does not feel like the holiday season. This holiday season will be very different as thanksgiving day is just another workday in Uganda (and the day before the end of our school year)....our holiday break is all of December and January... and I don't have other American's to celebrate with that are close by...unless someone wants to come for a vist!
John and Kimberly did get me a Christmas tree when we went to Kampala and I plan to make cinnamon ornaments. Going very simple this year. I would still like to hear from you via christmas cards and several of you have asked for a current needs list for myself and my little brown eyed cuties...
@travel size alarm clock that takes AA or AAA batteries
@boy's clothes ...shorts and shirts
@paper clips
@felt... different colors
@yarn for knitting
@scotch tape
@wall calendar
@sponsor for P1 field trip to Kampala
@sponsor for health/hygiene program...donations can be made through ITFM...SAME AS THE SHOE LINK JUST ADD WHAT THE MONEY IS FOR
@any other fun treats
@monetary donations can be sent to... my mom in NC or ITFM...please don't send cash or checks to Uganda... they won't make it to me!
Reminder low values on the custom slip as well as writing educational materials...take off all extra packaging and careful with things that may melt or spill!
Will update everyone after I go to the main post office to pay custom fees to pick up waiting boxes as to how much the cost is on my side. However things like cards and pictures go through just fine with a single international stamp!
The address is
ITFM
c/o Angela Calhoun
PO Box 71748
Kampala, Uganda, AFRICA
LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING FROM EACH OF YOU SOON!
As I am sitting in proctoring the exams, I am watching the children process through numeracy problems... one of the problems is a word problem that states... "A goat has 4 legs, how many legs do 5 goats have."
To solve this, the 14 year old child next to me draws 5 goats with 4 legs each and then counts all of them. He came up with the correct answer... just very creatively.
While I am going from class to class, I am noticing some of the teachers forgot to take down their number posters. Very quickly the children realize this and I see eyes wandering. Once I noticed this I started going around taking down posters. Will also reminded the teachers to do this during staff meeting.
I have been encouraged lately to make sure I am journaling through this process of living in a culture that is not my own... a language that is not my own... and a people group where I stick out like a sore thumb... (to the point where Hannington gave directions to find Nabisooto... drive to Busunju and ask the boda driver to take you to the village where the muzungu lives).
I am not one to sugar coat what is going on... this journey is difficult... but it is also wonderful! I have been in the village for two months with very few tears ... however the last week has been taxing emotional. Coming to terms with I can't be savior of the village... Jesus came to do that... but if I can give a hope and a future to one child... then I will do it. My heart is so heavy with emotion as I want to share what all is going on but setting emotion aside at least temporarily, I will go throught the event of the last two days...
Monday...well I now have an official office that I spent Friday setting up... was in my office by a little after 7 to get the exams ready for the teachers to give... this week is set aside for exams to see what the children have learned this year... their school year goes February through the end of November... all the children including the baby class (age 3 and 4) take pencil and paper exams...CRINGE...walked from class to class monitoring as the teachers gave the exams and to make sure that all the posters from that days exam were down or covered... after exams the children all went out to help out on the property...the girls swept the dirt while the older boys slashed the grass behind the school with their pangas or machetes.... the children were sent home at 1 so the teachers had time to grade exams... one by one the teachers brought their graded exams up and itgave me a chance to chat with them... after 2 months they are starting to open up a bit... offer suggestions... and ask questions (which thrills me to no end)... met with all the teachers on classroom discipline, making exam times as stress free for everyone (these teachers have the cultural fear that if their children do poorly that they will get beaten by the administrator). They are begiinning to realize that I don't rule with a big stick but lead with willing hands. As I flipped through the exams, I realized how biased the grading is and how not develpmentally appropriate these are for our little ones! Stepping down off my soda box!
Tuesday... had to go to Kampala to get some supplies and check on what is needed for my visa...went to immigration and got the run around...every person I spoke with gave me a different response ....so I am going to Kenya over Christmas break to visit a friend...when I come back into the country I will pray they will give another 90 days...if not then I have 1 week to get my visa extended. God has a plan and at this point I am not sure what it is but I will trust him. By the the time John, Hannington and I had gotten back Kimberly had had a rough day with noticing that a couple of our children had jiggers. This prompted her to be in action mode to figure out how to get shoes on their feet now. With jiggers they come from the dirt ... they are little bugs that bore into the skin and suck blood... the females lay their eggs in the skin and then you have an infestation. Not only do they need shoes and socks, they need to wash their feet, spray jigger killer all over there property and then using a needle and peroxide dig the jiggers out of the skin...like getting a deep splinter out. Not a fun process.
Wednesday.... got up to the school and arranged to have the lady from Bata come to campus tomorrow to measure feet. Proctored exams. The teachers gave me a list of those children with jiggers so we took them to the clinic to start cleaning and to go on home visits. Will blog more on this later. Spent time sorting the graded exams and asking a lot of questions about how children eith special learning needs are handled. Lots to be done. Will add more info layer.
Every trip to Kampala brings a new sign or experience that growing up in the US would not afford. Today we are driving in downtown Kampala and as usual while waiting at the intersections we are approached by street beggars. Our windows are tinted so it makes it hard to see in but once they see the buzungus (more than one muzungu) they start trying to sell their goods or gain sympathy for a few shillings. We have witnessed young mothers with babies pinching them so that they are crying to raise the sympathy factor.
Today a young lady with a beautiful baby girl on her hip approached Hannington's window and starts with the cordial greeting. After a couple of minutes of ignoring her... I tell Hannington I will take the baby... Hannington proceeds to roll down the window a little and tell the lady we will take the baby... just put it in the boot. The young woman looks at him confused so he says... you are out on the street begging... you don't provide for the child. Why are you producing?
This is not the first time Hannington has done this but it still catches me off guard and I find it funny as he calls it like it is. The last time it was a boy out selling wears in the middle of the day... Hannington told him why wasn't he in school? There are schools he could be in but he refuses and runs away because he doesn't like the rules. The boy was probably glad to see us move on.
It is moments like this that I am glad I am in the village and get to work face to face with these children.
Today was just one of those days where knowing about certain situations within the village just makes your heart ache. Children covered with scabies...numerous children and workers with malaria...older kids that go to other schools wandering around because their parents won't/can't pay school fees...children as young as 4 years old being left at home by themselves while the mom leaves for several days at a time...
Here I had been upset at one of the staff because he had not been doing what I was told was his responsibility. As I searched out the situation I found out that he was not being given the information needed in order to do what was expected. So spent some time giving individuals specific directions instead of general instructions where no one picks up the responsibility
A day that was supposed to be fun and enjoyable was taken too seriously and the children were upset and angry as a result of the teachers stress. Culturally corporal punishment is a way of f dealing with all kinds of issues including not writing neatly ... so after witnessing several instances today of harsh reactions to minor infractions... I know what we are going to be discussing at Monday's staff meeting and what will be written in the policies.
The situation also came up of one of the teachers pretending not to understand me and not working with me or the rest of the teachers in providing a quality education for these children.
To top it off Sheba killed mouse number 2 this morning while I was up at the school. By the looks of it the mouse had gotten into the poison we put down in the shop so when Sheba got the mouse she got really sick and just cried with her tummy all puffed up... she ended up vomiting all of her stomach contents under my uncle's bed which thankfully is just concrete floor and easily cleaned up. At one point I found Sheba in the clinic on one of the exam tables seeking treatment. Thankfully after all that she is back to her playful self.
And that was just Monday... this week has been a difficult week filled with situations that can only be defined as spiritual attack. I know I am supposed to just let things go but after being bombarded in battle for 7 days my heart is heavy and I am physically tired.
Here are the things you can be praying for...
@Christmas shoes... after days of trying to get the word out and computer issues and internet issues...finally got posted and have 10 pairs of shoes sponsored ... great start but still alongway to go especially within the next two weeks!
@computer... seems like each computer on campus is having issues. Mine has been on the verge of a crash for the past month... finally crashed this week... my uncle put in a new hard drive and started loading programs back on it and it crashed again. Time for a new computer and really have no way to get one at the moment.
@Strength to do what God has called me to do for today and peace to wait on his timing for the future
@Wisdom to know how best to help this community... there is so much need that one person can't alone do it and there are cultural issues that break my heart that I alone cannot solve.
@Health and God's protection from things like scabies and ringworm.
Thank you for your prayers and the words of encouragement. I have really enjoyed the snail mail letters! (Hint, hint)
In Luganda this means "slowly, slowly"... which is a perfect description of our day as well as life in Uganda. Life on Molokai prepared me somewhat for this ... but this is moving it to the next level. Take today for example... had to run some errands today and get some supplies from Kampala... here was our time table....
6am ... take the cat out... make coffee and breakfast... get ready... load the car... and wait for Jospehine to come to work to drop Sheba off with.... Hannington visits with Mulongo and the crew to see how the countertops are coming along... John walks up to the top of the property to inspect where they are starting a house
8am... leave the house and drive almost an hour and a half to get a generator... once there they had to pick out a decently made generator... test it out... find the right oil and prime the fuel... dikker on the price... and then wrap it in a box and load it into the truck. (Morning coffee set in and I need to go to the potty but only urinals were found)
10:45... head to the bank to pull out money for the supplies we had to buy... Hannington and Kimberly went in while John and I sat in the truck... there were only 2 people in front of them in line but it took almost 40 minutes (and I really needed to find a potty but the outside toilets were in process of being cleaned)
11:30... leaving bank headed to XingXing furniture store...get stuck in traffic behind the presidents motorcade... finally get to the store...we are dropped off to find furniture for the administrator office while Hannington gets a boda to find some hardware...cooking pots for the new school kitchen... and hire a big flat bed truck to take back desks and chairs for the new classrooms, furniture for my office and other big furniture... waited for them to find cardboard to wrap the furniture ( and I finally found an inside potty to use and even though it was a squatty potty I could wait no longer)
1pm... go by with the flat bed truck to pick up three sets of welded bunkbeds for our workers who are currently sleeping on the floor of the shop and then head to Oasis mall where there was very little security compared to the past few visits... Hannington dropped us and the car off... hires a boda to go to three locations looking for furniture and supplies while we had lunch ... walked over to Garden city,.. found ink cartridges for the printer...office supplies...airtime for phones ... looked at appliances for the new house the walked back over to Oasis to grocery shop at Nakumatt...find Hannington... met with the manager of Bata shoes for Christmas shoes for the little ones ... had ice cream... and went back to Nakumatt to pick up cold items
5:45pm... by this time traffic is getting really bad...took us almost two hours to get Kgas for the cook stove... then run by Tuskers to pick up dinner... and head home...
10:30pm... arrive back to Nabisooto
We had no idea that it would take us this long but thankful we are home safe and sound.
The "new" chicken coop. Rosemary's house looks about the same ... it is just on the ground! |
The inside of the chicken coop |
Picture from Saturday's home visit to Mamma Jordan's house. |
This little lady captured my heart! So precious! |
Mamma Kimberly holding baby Mary... Jordan's youngest sister! Such a cutie! |
Jordan and Harriet playing with Mamma Kimberly's umbrella. These two joined us for most of the walk. |
This little one... was timid of the "muzungus" when we walked up but within moments she was in my arms and wanted to follow when we were leaving! |
Waving good bye! |
A typical mud house in the village. |
The view of the village from the school veranda. The poles will be the walls of the new kitchen. |
Mamma Vencencia's current "kitchen" making school lunches |
Numbers in Luganda |
Playing futbol at recess |
Eating lunch at school... porridge and cassava |
Working on building the new kitchen |
This is our hand washing station... we just learned how to use soap and clean the dirt from under our nails |
We write our daily assignments from the board into our notebooks. Today we are learning about healthy foods to eat. |
We are waiting on the porch outside of the clinic to brush our teeth. |
We love to brush our teeth!! |